The best way to get over a bad past is to create an amazing future! ~ Dr. Dharius Daniels Whether you’re fresh outta highschool, college, a job, a relationship or some other point of transition, you’re probably wondering to yourself… Okay what now? What am I supposed to be doing? What is my purpose? If […]
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Sis, Chase Your Dreams, Not That N*gga
This may come as “no-brainer” to some, but a “not-so-gentle” reminder to many. If you have a history of putting love on the line and hanging up on your dreams, then you should probably keep reading. Peace my loves, Tajhae here (might be Adeola tomorrow though ;), the little big sistar you never knew you […]
What Should I Text Back? 5 Things to Consider When Dating
“They say practice makes perfect and I know I deserve it. But sometimes we should do it for fun.” 10,000 hours by Ella Mai Every time I hear the song 10000 hours and those lyrics come through my speakers, it always makes me stop and think, “How can dating be fun for me?” I’ve started […]
Dating Yourself in 2020
It’s 9am on yet another Monday morning, and before you can get out of bed, your phone buzzes with the same message you’ve been getting… at the same time each morning: “Good morning beautiful” At lunch, you’ll get a, “wyd?” or “how’s your day going?” text. Nothing too fancy, just mediocre repetition. By the weekend […]
5 Self-help Books for the Black Wombman
On her journey of self-discovery… If you are reading this, then you know that your journey of healing from childhood trauma, low self-esteem, intergenerational trauma, and other uncomfortable experiences that may have negatively impacted your healing journey, is unique as a black woman. More of us in the Diaspora are becoming more comfortable in expressing […]